
A LAST SUPPER BEFORE LEAVING SHANGHAI.
Brought up on the propaganda of the sixties and seventies, the photographs, stories, and television documentaries of the poor and the homeless in quote, Third World Countries, unquote, I was prepared for poor homes, homeless, and beggars when I went to visit Mexico. My camera automatically turned towards the filth, the garbage, the unfinished buildings. My pockets bulged with candies to give to children asking for money. Two months later, when I came home from China, my pockets were still full, with the same candies.
Because we in Canada have the highest standard of living in the world we tend to think of those without a telephone as impoverished. Why does a Mexican, or an Oriental, need a
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Not that cars aren't available to them. In Shanghai you can buy a new Buick or Ferrari on the main floor of a department store.
Before I went to China, Huang Yi Ming, my step-son, born and raised in Shanghai, used to laugh at me when I complained about the traffic in Vancouver. He told me that there are many more cars in Shanghai. But I knew better, I had read the stories of how poor the Chinese are. I knew that no one there could afford a new car.
I have had many an argument about many of the things in China. After all a boy of sixteen, from any race, thinks he knows everything in the world and grown ups have read the `National Geographic' and watched `Sixty Minutes' and are fully informed about other countries.
One thing I didn't find, in China, was oppression. After all the stories I had heard of being careful where I pointed my camera I never gave them a thought while I clicked the shutter. I took pictures of who and what I wanted, where and when I wanted, except for one monk who admonished me for taking a picture of a Buddha.
At no time was I ever accosted by a policeman and asked for my papers. In fact other than traffic I never saw any police. Nor, other than for some soldiers out shopping, did I see any sign of the dreaded Red Army.
Yi Ming told me that there are no slums in Shanghai, that there are no street people. True enough when I was there I never saw anyone sleeping on the sidewalks or holding out their hands for money. I never saw drug dealers or prostitutes. But on the other hand I never saw skid row, which he tells me doesn't exist but I steadfastly believe does. I just never got to that part of the city, or so I believe.
As my wife is a member of the upper middle class I only saw the suburbs and the stores. And don't ever believe for one minute that there are no classes in China. The Chinese could well teach the English aristocracy a thing or two about snobbery. Despite the few years when Communism ruled with an iron fist the Chinese have practised prejudicism for thousands of years before England ever existed.
I had learned in Mexico, and I found it to be true in China, that the people are not poor. They earn far less than we do in dollars but the dollars stretch further in their countries. Though they may not have insulated homes they all have the obligatory television and stereo. They may not be able to afford trips to other countries but they have family and in many ways are richer than we.
Though Orientals may look on us as outsiders and would definitely not want their sister to marry one they are only too quick to say hello, often the only word of English that they know, and are only too quick to smile and laugh when you make an attempt to answer them in their own language. However if you attempt to say more than hello or good morning the majority will probably freeze you out and pretend that they don't understand what you are saying no matter how correctly you pronounce their language.
In the mid `90s, when Huang Bin first left China, the government told her that her mother would have to move to a smaller apartment because the apartment they were in was too big
for just one person
In the late `90s Huang Bin purchased a three bedroom apartment on the ground floor of a new complex on the outskirts of PuDong, a district of Shanghai, China. Her sister, Jing Mei, purchased, an adjoining, one bedroom corner unit. They had carpenters put French doors in the adjoining wall, thereby creating a four bedroom, two bathroom home. The living room in the smaller apartment became the dinning room and the kitchen in the larger apartment became an office nook, where I set up my computer.
Like many homes in Shanghai, the apartment is equipped with air conditioning units but no heating system. Unlike most air conditioning units the ones in Bin's house also produce a
minimal amount of heat but this feature is seldom used because of the high cost of electricity.
If you look at any of the newer complexes you will see the outside of the structure dotted with air conditioning condensers, hoses running through the walls into the apartments.
The outside of most apartments are also equipped with racks that extend out from the balconies, or windows, to hang clothes for drying. Most newer homes have washer and dryer but they still prefer fresh air for drying.
Newer complexes are surrounded by high fences topped with broken glass. At the entrances are rolling gates and guard houses with uniformed security personnel. Tenants can feel secure in leaving their cars parked on the streets within the complex.
As Bin spends most of her time in Canada, and Jing Mei finds the new home too far to commute, the house is usually closed. When we arrived in mid December it was very damp. Without heat it was impossible to dry it out. I soon learned the reason for comforters on the bed, and down filled jackets on the body keeps one from dying of hypothermia.
I know Vancouverites like to keep their windows open and the heat turned low but they don't keep it so cold that they have to wear jackets in the house. I am not a Vancouverite, though I have lived there for the past ten years. I do not run around in the middle of the winter wearing only shorts or a light jacket.

Huang Bin's Home, in Pu Dong.
Huang Jing Di's Home, in Pu Dong.
Also, construction of new high rises.
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Though I have worked in the Arctic where the wind chill factor was minus 140 and I have worked on a road crew on Northern Vancouver Island where the rain fall is over 200 inches per year, I still expect, at the end of the working day, to be able to go into my home, shed my clothes and be warm and dry. Watching Bin wake up in the morning and pull on thermal underwear and two sweaters before she crawled out from under the eiderdown quilts convinced me that she will never convince me to retire in Shanghai.
Though, during my short three weeks in China, I didn't die of frost bite or convince the Chinese that white people weren't evil ogres, I did win the hearts of my in-laws.
In central Pu Dong on, E Shan Lu, a side street, not some place a person would go if they weren't specifically directed, there is a large hotel. Before Huang Yi Ming came to Canada he was a chef at the Wei Tai Entertainment Center.
The night before I left Shanghai my in-laws took me to the Wei Tai Hotel for a final treat. I was introduced to the head chef, Yi Ming's former boss, seated in a small banquet room and treated to a traditional Chinese supper.
Despite the cold and the damp, really no worse than you would find in a home on the West Coast of North America if you never turned the furnace on, I had a thoroughly enjoyable trip to China. I will always remember the scenery, the people, and especially my wife's family.
To my in-laws I would like to say, "Thank You", for your hospitality and friendship.
I would also like to thank Yi Ming and the members of the Rat Pak who guided me and translated for me during some marvellous adventures.
PS. The Rat Pak is a name I gave to the group of Yi Ming's friends because one was nicknamed Rat and I am old enough to remember Dean Martin and the Rat Pack.
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